Alarm bells should ring when a middle aged American the most stupid race on earth and a danger to all of us because of that thinks a 25 year old blonde would be interested in him. Even more worrying are the number of men who have sent money to these women. If they fall in love with you after two e-mails, they are using you. Avoid the "glamour" pictures and the money requests and you can find lots of genuine Russian girls.
They are truly lovely. To send your own story, please click here. She used to be single and did not have any children just a few months ago, now she is " divirced" and "has a wonderful son"! I never knew those things with kids could happen so quickly. At least, she is still a Doctor and still enjoys playing tennis, piano and singing.
She was very happy that I exist in the World! I think she is a very happy person. By the way, I never mentioned anything about German to her!
Watch out for this one. Unfortunately i can not speak German - only English. Well, now, I will tell you how we got connected and who I am: You can see the way I look from the picture I attach - just normal girl. I live and work in Minsk, the capital of Belarus , I am a Doctor, divirced and have a wonderful son.
To be honest, I have many friends , but nobody special in my life, an there is a feeling of missing something very important within my heart.
I am very romantic girl, I play the piano and sing, when I have inspiration. May be one day I will play something very romantic only for you? I dream that we could hardly wait the morning in oder to look at each other again, and would be so happy that just hoped that life could never end.
I dream to build such a cosy home that not the best holiday in the World could superseed the warm feeling to returt safely to it's ellegance. Do you like sport? I play quite good tennis, specially in the summer, I like swimming a lot in a long distance in the sea, when I was a little girl, I used to tranee gymnastic for many years, and now, at least twice a week I go to the gym, where I tranee to stay limber and flexible, and, I still can do the split.
I would be very happy if you could send me your photo, if it is possible. Please, feel free to ask me any questions and to write me more about you. Have a very nice day! Elena Moroz Minsk, Belarus.
My name is Skip and I am from L. I started to correspond with Elena, mid December of I found her on the "lovechaser. We wrote back and forth some 20 or 30 letters before it abruptly ended in mid March of Elena seemed very sincere from the beginning.
Over a period of time Elena hinted at needing money to come visit me in America. She insisted she come here and for me not not to go to Minsk.
She would not give me her last name or address for a really long time even though I asked her for them several times. I had a private investigator look for Elena Moroz and he could not find her anywhere. Her address is non-existent.
Elena is so good at her deception, she would spend the money on long distance phone calls. When she finally realized that I would never send her money but would only buy her an unrefundable electronic airline ticket, and that she wouldn't get a dime from me at least until she got to the States, she finally gave up.
She had to be very vicious about it though by ending with the most incredible love letter full of beautiful promises she never intended to keep. But, I got the last laugh because I never spent a dime on her! My first doubts about her came on December 30 after I had offered to buy her an airline ticket to come visit me.
At the time, I did not realize that it is practically impossible for a lady from her country to get a tourist visa to come to America. I like your idea, skip, to come to visit you in your country, but I haven't got very much money maybe I'll need some help. Can you help me with the money for my trip? Elena, I think if you will read my last letter to you, I said that I would buy you an airline ticket to come visit me.
So do not worry about the money. All you have to do is get your visa and get on the airplane and soon, you will be by my side. You will need to get a passport and I want you to ask the American consulate what you need to get a tourist visa.
I don't know if you need a special invitation from me. What do you think if I'll come to your country to visit you for some time? Will you be able to help me with some money if I need any? Yes, I would love to have you come to see me in California!
I would buy your airline ticket and you would not need much during your visit. But, Elena, I have been told that it is almost impossible to get you a tourist visa. But, I do not listen to others and give up so easily. I will ask the government what is required to have you come for your visit. If it is impossible for you to get a tourist visa, then I will just come to visit you. Would you like that? On January 12 she ignores my statement about the difficulty of getting her a visa.
It's really nice to hear from you. You're always on my mind, and I think of us very often. I'd also like to meet with you very soon, but I think we'll have to be patient, as it really needs time to arrange everything, to get the visa. I know that it's quite possible to get a tourist visa here to USA.
But this all needs time and surely money. What do you think, how much money shall I have to be enough for my visit to you? Maybe, I haven't got such amount of money? But I'd like to meet with you very much; I'm waiting for our meeting and thinking of it constantly.
On January 12, I sent her this letter. Note that I have asked for her street address and her last name. I have been waiting so impatiently for your letter and I was sitting at the computer when it finally came. You can imagine how excited I was to receive it!
If you think that you can get one, that that would be wonderful. I could write a letter to you to give to the American Consulate in Minsk, requesting them to issue you the visa to come visit me. I think that may help you in getting this visa. As far as any expenses for this, I will pay for anything you need. You just need to let me know how much and where to send it.
I will also pay for your round trip airfare. I will buy the ticket and you will just need to pick it up at the airport before the flight. I have the money for the airfare saved already. But, Elena, I would want you to fly from Kiev instead of Minsk.
The reason for this is that the cost to fly from Minsk is more than twice as much as is the cost to fly from Kiev. You will not need much money when you come to visit me. Only what you want to buy any souvenirs and whatever you are comfortable with bringing. You can stay at my home and I will sleep on the couch in the living room and you can sleep in my bedroom.
Would this be acceptable for you? However, if it turns out that it is too difficult for you to come to America, I will come to visit you instead. I would love to see you country very much so this is not a problem and it will be so very easy to do.
I just will need to renew my passport and get visas for Minsk and Kiev. I would like you to send me your address to your home and if you have a telephone, I would like that also. Elena, I don't even know your last name! Can you tell me what it is? On January 24, I finally received a response to my last letter.
This I think is a little high since she doesn't need to use a translation service. Also, She is now trying to call me on the telephone. This is very convincing that she must be serious. But is was all just a small investment for her because she wants me to send her a very large amount of money for the Travel Agency and airline ticket.
This will become obvious in a few more letters. She did not give me her last name and address after my request in the last letter. There was a 12 day delay between our letters. I don't want it to take 2 months before you can get the visa. So I came up with a wonderful idea. I will call the embassy and find out what they think of my idea. I will mail you a letter with my formal invitation for you to get a guest visa to come visit me.
It will have your name and address. I will include a copy of my birth certificate to prove that I am a US citizen. I will also get the invitation notarized. Everything will be very legal and hopefully, they will speed up the process of issuing you your visa.
What do you think of this idea, Elena? Now, just in case you still can't get a visa, I will just have to come to visit you in Minsk. Would this be OK with you? I think I'd like to come to visit you first and then if things will work out for us and we decide to be together, we'll return together to Minsk and I'll take you to my mother.
But first I'd like to come to your country and to see your life there. I sent her the following response on Jan I have asked her again for her last name and address. I really like it very much that you want to come visit me. I would love that very much. I have been doing a lot of research about this possibility and I am finding that there may be difficulties. In general, it is hard to get a visa to come to America because of the terrorist attack last September.
I know that the US Embassies in all countries are very cautious about issuing visas unless they are sure that the applicant will definitely want to only visit and not try to stay. But Sweetheart, I don't know if this is true or not. I think we should speak to the US Consulate there in Minsk and tell them what we want to do.
If we are completely open with them, they may be impressed and will then be helpful. In my last big letter, I also mentioned that I should write you a formal invitation to come for your visit. I will include proof that I am a U.
I would send them a copy of my birth certificate and the invitation will be sent to them certified and notarized so they will know that it is real. I will also send you this same invitation so they will know that you are truly the one I am inviting Elena, here is something I found at the website for the U.
This is information that you will need to be familiar with I think with this information and my invitation, you probably will not have any difficulty in obtaining a visa.
Let me know if you need any help with the cost of the fees. Here is the data from the website: Here is the part in the letter about her name and address: You know Sweetheart, I too have been a little frustrated about getting you to tell me your last name and for you to give me your address. I will need them for your invitation and for something else that I have dreamed up for you. So I would like you to give me this information in your next letter. I sent her another letter on Feb 2 again asking for her name and address.
She had also stated that she would call me that weekend and she didn't. On Feb 7, I finally get her to give me her last name and address. But there seems to be a warning not to use them. She also said she would call every day, which I thought was ridiculous. It's nice to hear from you. Don't be afraid I got two letters of yours.
I couldn't get there quickly and let you know about everything. So, I'm very, very sorry for this. But now as I can call you every day I'll try to phone you as soon as possible. If it depends only on me, I'd have called you long ago, but the circumstances are against me, and I so much want to hear your voice. And no, don't doubt I'm not punishing you at all. That wasn't even on my mind! I'm not so mean as you think me to be.
What concerns flowers on St. Valentine's Day, I must confess, that there are many problems with some flowers. There will be more problems than pleasure from getting them if I get them at last, of course. So, I think a postcard would be quite enough.
So, please, excuse me for this weekend, skip dear, but as you see I had a serious excuse. Hope to hear from you soon. I'm thinking about you even when I'm asleep. With best regards and lots of hugs and kisses for you. On Feb 12th she has started to hint about getting money from me again. She is also lying to me about flower delivery in Belarus so that I won't send flowers to her false address. It takes me a lot of time to get there. And sometimes I'm so tired after work or simply have no opportunity to get there.
I think I've already described this situation to you. Of course, that would be very nice to communicate with you every day, but it's impossible. You know there're a lot of delivering companies in Europe and in your country, and it all doesn't work in our country. There are no such companies here, so it's impossible to get flowers or anything else.
Do you understand now? My job is a job of a dentist. Yes, surely I'd like to meet with you as soon as possible. I'd like to see your face, to look into your eyes, to talk to you in person. Maybe I'll be able for a week or two, it depends on the Visa. I'm going to get a tourist visa and I don't need an invitation about the hotels there.
I think you needn't get a visa to Minsk yet. We'll be able to return to Minsk together after my visit to you. SO, you still have some time to think if you're quite serious about your intentions. Besides, there can be some problems with money for me. Can you look on the Intern what's the price of a return airline ticket to your place? I don't know if I have enough money? Help me, please; I want to see you so badly, that I'm eager to do everything possible to make this dream come true.
Lots of hugs and sweet kisses only for you. On Feb 12th , I responded to her letter and here are some excerpts. By this time I have a pretty good idea that she is just trying to scam money from me. You can see how I am making it impossible for her to get my money. I have already looked on the internet for the prices of tickets. The best way for you to come here or for me to go to Minsk is to fly out of Kiev. So, it would be better to sit on a bus and save so very much money that could be used for other things for us.
Sweetheart, you don't need to worry about the cost of the tickets. I can buy them on the internet and then all you have to do is to pick them up at the airport at the time of your flight.
They will be in your name so you just need to give them your identification. You should call ahead to confirm that they have them though. Just to make sure there are no problems. Now I must tell you, these tickets will be non-refundable so you must fly at the time on the tickets. Also on Feb 12th, I confronted her on her recently updated page on her dating agency website: Elena, I have something of great concern that I wan to mention to you again.
I was going to the several internet dating agency sites to remove or suspend my profile. I only am interested in you. This didn't bother me too much because I thought you might have just forgotten about it. Now I am very concerned that you really aren't serious about me. That you are still looking aggressively for other men.
I know we aren't engaged or anything yet. But if we are far enough along in our relationship where I will be flying you half way around the world, I would expect you to suspend your search until we know if we are to be together. I would really like to hear what you think about this, Elena. You also did not respond to what I said about the delivery of flowers. Is there something going on that I should know about? I wait impatiently for your response. She didn't even address the fact that she had recently updated it.
Thanks for your letters again. I enjoy hearing from you, but I think we'd better talk in person instead of communication in letters only. But it's a bit of a difficulty now and we should be patient. What concerns the tickets? You can't send me tickets, because here a travel agency is buying tickets, paying and organizing the visa itself. They won't give me any tourist visa without purchasing the tickets for me; it's impossible they say. I don't know is it true or not, but it's exactly what they say about it.
They say they should be absolutely sure about my getting there and coming back and they should hand me the tickets them selves. I do feel very serious about you, otherwise I won't waste my and your time, believe me. I'm not looking for often men.
I just lost my code and can't remove my profile and photo from the web site. I just don't remember the code. And you know I'm also very concerned about you not believing me. I really don't like it at all. I don't understand this problem with the tickets. I am very skeptical about this travel agency.
All you have to do is to go to the American Consulate in Minsk and request a tourist visa. There is a small fee to pay. You just need to show them that you are a dentist and that you have a practice to come back to.
I can purchase you an airline ticket very easily and you just would need to pick it up at the airport. If this travel agency says you can't do this, then they are trying to make money from us when we don't need them. I think they are trying to take advantage of us thinking that we are stupid.
I love the thought of living with you every day. We'll talk about our day and our lives and make to each other the way people do when they are fully in love, my love, my mind is saturated with thoughts and dreams of you, my dear Skip. I've found out the cost of my trip to you, we discussed the date of my coming, but what's now? I never want to lose you. You are a special and very important part of my life.
I feel a desire to be near you, to take care of you, comfort when you feel bad, and to enjoy this life together with you when everything is good.
I want to start a strong and happy family together with you. I want to be only yours and you to be only mine. Maybe too many "wants" of me, my dear? Tell me, what it is that you would like for us. I am waiting for your reply, dear Skip. Feb 28th , Elena is sending me the cost of her trip according to her travel agent friend.
The airline ticket bounces her all over Europe before arriving in the US, at a very high fee. This is information that I've found out I need to get a Visa. B2 Visitor Visa Used for foreign individuals that want to visit the U. Tourist visa for 3 months. All the documents and certificates connected with the immigration , which required after coming to the USA.
I have to back tickets to the both ends. It's the most important point in getting visa with the departure and arrival dates. This is information I and my travel agent found in the Internet: I told you that I would pay for your ticket. The next thing is that I want you to fly from the airport in Kiev, Ukraine. The airport in California that you want is in Los Angeles. The airport code is: Her response was very interesting, but she had no intention of buying her own ticket as she has no money.
I've thoughts a bit and I decided not to go to the travel agency. I decided to buy a return ticket myself and go to the embassy myself, and take a B2 visa. What do you think of that? Do you trust me? With love lots of hugs and kisses for you. In the next letter or two, Elena and I discuss my coming to Minsk. But I try to put her mind at ease. At this point, I almost believe that I have misjudged her and she is really not trying to scam me for money.
You know you've understood me wrong. I haven't quit the idea of coming to you on a V2 visa. It's the best variant for me still. And I don't know what are you afraid of? You seem to be afraid of my visit to you. Maybe you've married there and that's why you don't want me to come to you? I started thinking so, after your strange behaviors. You promised me to send money for the telephone call and no money, no result at all. I start to doubt in your honesty and sincerity. I don't' think Americans are stupid or arrogant.
Besides your visit here is impossible how can I introduce you to my mother? What should I say to her? Then you don't love me at all, because you don't care about me, you do care only about you. Besides, why do you have any other woman or girl there? Please, explain everything to me. Because after all our discussions. I start losing my patience.
You seem not to hear me at all. You hear only yourself and you can't discuss anything because you don't listen to my words, you think you've always right and I'm always wrong. I still love you. Lots of hugs and million of kisses only to you. Is this the most insane thing you have ever read? I was in shock, to say the least. I responded to each of these accusations and referred her to her earlier letters.
March 10th, I tell Elena that I will now help her get a private visa by writing her a formal invitation. Here are some excerpts: So here is what I am going to do.
Tonight I am going to call the U. I am going to ask them what we need to do to get them to issue you a private visa. This is different from a tourist visa. This will require me to give you a formal invitation for you to come to America to be with me. I will also send you a copy of the formal invitation to take with you to the Embassy. I think this will give us a much better chance for you to get a visa. This has been the reason of my reluctance about your visit ever since you first said you wanted to come here.
I was never thinking of myself, Elena. I was always thinking of us and our future together. You must also know that you will have to fly to America from Kiev, not Minsk. I have told you this before but you never responded to this statement. I have heard that it is very inexpensive to travel from Minsk to Kiev by bus.
But you will need to check on this. Now, we have much to do to make all of this happen as quickly as possible. Are you very positive that this is what you want to do? Obviously not because she now understands that she is not going to get any money from me. So what will she do? She writes the most beautiful letter to she has ever written. But then I never hear from her again.
It is her attempt to hurt me emotionally and I have to admit, I was sorry to see it end. I suppose I was hoping that I was completely wrong about her.
But I was always smart enough to never send her any money. Here's a copy of the entire letter, dated March 10th. My dear, hello Skip!!! I am so sad I wasn't able to reach you over the phone.
I had a little problem at the post office when I tried to order a collect call. Our operator didn't understand my request. But I'll try to call you next week. I want to spend my life with you Skip.
The heat will melt ice to water, and boil water to steam - but we will only burn for each other, a blaze of desire so bright that it will dazzle everyone around us. You have taught me how powerful love is, my darling. I cannot sleep at night without saying your name. Watch out for this one as she is very devious and will work her game for several months.
Says she works selling cosmetics and lives with her mom. Says she can obtain visa to visit and asks for money to help pay for airfare. Watch out for Elena Raupova! Katya Strelkova , aka: Well this one has been busy! My letters were word for word as the other guys. I was curious enough to look into the internet to find out where this person comes from only to be warned just in time by this wonderful web site!
I'm so pleased that you can understand my not so good English language, that I has learned in school and in College. I'm centimeters tall, my weight is 54 kg, I have medical education, I'm a child nurse. I work in children's hospital and I look after children. I live in the city Yoshkar-Ola.
It is approximately in kilometers from the Moscow city. I want to say you, that I love children very much. And they drink alcohol very frequently and it not so is pleasant to me. I think, that such habit is not a gift. I want to inform, that I do not smoke, and I do not drink strong drinks. But sometimes I like to drink in the good company a small glass of grape vine, though it happens very seldom.
I want to say, that I am able well to play a piano, I have finished musical school, I've studied for 6 years. I Want to inform, that I live with my mum. I have the father. My grandfather unfortunately has died, 7 years ago. I want to say, that I like various music, but mostly classical.
I want to be serious. My relations with you are to find love and to create happy family. I will be pleased, if you want the same. I want to say, that I write to you from an office computer. Unfortunately I have no the computer at home. I hope, that it will not be a problem. I hope you'll answer me soon. Hi my dear Gregory. I write this letters from an Internet cafe. My weight of 54 kgs. I'm cm tall. I to not have children! I was never married!
I very much to want to marry. My age 25 years. I've finished a musical school. I am able to play on the piano. I work as a children's medical sister. What you to love to do in free time? What kind of food do you like? I have a day off today and I have decided to write a letter to you. My mum an me are going to visit my grandmother today. She lives in 50 kilometers from our city in a village. I live in city Yoshkar-Ola. There are perfect nature and circle of woods. She will prepare pies which are made in the furnace.
They are very delicious and fragrant. You probably never ate such tasty pies. My feelings with each letter to you are becoming stronger and stroner. I talked to the mum about our relations. I told her some phrases from your letter and she said that you are probably honour man and your feelings are sincere about your relations to me, but you should not hurry up with acceptance of the serious decision, you should understand the feelings.
We with you as two climbers which rise in a mountain, I am on the one side, and you are on the other, and the final point is the top on which we will meet. We should climb to the top not looking on obstacles which can will meet on our way, and then everything will be very well.
I shall wait for your answer. Natalia Sergeevna Ulyanovsk, Russia handle: I am a 44 year divorced, white American. I originally corresponded to Natasha, aka Natalia, through match. We corresponded for about one month. I enjoyed her letters, she painted the picture that she was a poor Russian girl still living with her parents in a 2 bedroom apartment coz she couldn't afford to live by herself.
They did not have a telephone so I could never call her. She really does not come out and say that she needs money. She lets the person being scammed volunteer it which is why I trusted her. I eventually suggested to go over to her city to meet her and her parents and she talked me out of it by saying that she has heard that some American guys that have come over to see their Russian girls never made it to their destination, insinuating that it was a dangerous place and that she would never forgive herself if something ever happened to me.
So, she suggested that since she has never been abroad before that she would love to come over to the US to visit me. I tried to find out whether the travel agency takes credit cards and she said no. Then she suggested that she had seen a commercial on TV about sending money thru Western Union. So I sent her the money thru Western Union. After she got the money I did not here from here for several days. I kept sending her emails and then she finally responded with 1 line responses not being very friendly anymore and very standoffish.
This is when I started looking for scamming information and found this website. So I sent her an email asking her if she was scamming me and she never responded. I also, set up another profile on match. But too late for me! Hello Harold, Thank you for your letter and your picture You look really nice! My dear, please, tell me about your favorite things: I'm interested to know more about your work and everyday life Please, tell me what do you expect from relations between two people?
And if it's no secret, I'd like to know smth about your experience in the serious relationship. My favorite writers are Russian classics such as L. I also like Ernest Hemingway and Oscar Wild. I like to read some modern russian writers as Victor Pelevin. My favorite color is red, flower is daffodil, season is spring, time is night and evening, movie is "The Story Of Us" My favourite food is fruit and smth sweet scherbet, chak-chak, kazinaki, do you know what it is?
I like Russian food such as pelmeni and borsch, I do love shashlic Also I like Mexican and Indian food I like to cook smth unusual, especially if I cook for smb special It could be great if this special man is the man whom I'm writing this letter.
My family isn't large, my parents and me. I live with them in two-rooms apartment. My mother is the most beautiful woman for me and for my dad, of course: And my dad is very interesting, intelligent man. He is philosopher inside. He read a lot and think about the world a lot My parents are the best advisers for me, it's strange but they never make mistakes in their advises. I love them most of smb else Well, it's hard to tell what I really expect from the serious relations, from the marriage.
It depends on the man with whom I build the relations. I want to be loved, respected, trusted And I want the understanding firstly. I want to feel that this man is the part of me who can understand me as deeply as I can understand myself or I suppose much more deeply I'm in need of trust. I was scammed so much times so I hardly can trust people.
But I want to trust them! And I need to be proved and if the man could prove that I really can trust him I'll believe him for all my life and nothing could break my trust in such man. My dream is simple enough. I want to meet that one who will love me. I want to marry, create a family and born children. I want to spend with my future husband all my life. Only I need is to be with the man who will love me, trust me, understand me. I want to share with him all my life, all my dreams and feelings.
Well, I better go now. I'm thinking of you and waiting for your letter impatiently. Best regards, Natasha mailto: Letter - This is the letter where she discourages me to come see her.. Darling, I do want to meet you! I live in miles from Moscow to south east and you can go here by train. I don't know how about the plain from Moscow to Ulyanovsk I don't know exactly.
Honey, are you sure, you want to come here? I do want to meet you but I'm a little worried that you won't feel comfortable here. I heard that there are many foreigners who came to Russia to see their women and they were stolen or even killed by some bastards.
If something happens to you here, I won't forget myself. And you know I have never been abroad and it could be the best adventure for me to see how you live there, what is around you, what you see every day. I do want to know your reality to know and understand you better. My visa is invalid now, so if you decide to go here, we have to wait while my visa will be done May and June is great, but may we meet earlier?
What do you think? Honey, I'm really crazy about you! I want to be with you for all my life and to give you all I have Harold, you are so wonderful, thank you for being with me, for your care and love, for all you are giving me. You need to cancel your own membership etc just follow the instructions outlined below.
If you want to find real women on genuine dating sites go here. My son whom is a minor is on this site i want you people to delete his account immediately if it is i will call the authorities. It was there when we wrote the IWantU. Have you guys actually tried to cancel a subscription via email before writing that advice?
Option 1 does not work, they just tell you to call a phone number, which I am very skeptical about trying. I'm waiting to see if the email in option 2 works. If it does not, there honestly does not seem much hope for cancelling this scam other than getting a new card. Your email address will not be published. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.